DC Cookie

Tuesday, October 18, 2005

Gentlemen

In the past few months, I've seen my friends go through some unexpected break-ups and struggle with the disappointment. I've watched friends desire men who don't respond positively to their affections, and then take it way too personally. I've listened to the woes of girls who have been through a string of dates that go nowhere. And the generic, bitter catch phrase that ultimately gets uttered throughout these feminine tribulations is, 'Men Suck!'

Luckily for me, I've made the acquaintance of several charming DC area gentlemen who, in fact, don't suck. And I now feel it's my duty to spread the word. If you're feeling frustrated, take a deep breath, shrug your shoulders, go for a quick jog, and then re-group. Fresh slate. I promise, there are good men out there. Gentlemen who call you when they say they will, open your door, say thank you when you do something nice, and bring you strawberry ice cream 'just because.'

Happy searching, and whatever you do, don't settle. You don't have to.

13 Comments:

  • At October 18, 2005 2:25 PM, Blogger A Unique Alias said…

    I can personally confirm your assertion. :-)

     
  • At October 18, 2005 2:28 PM, Blogger Asian Mistress said…

    There are good men out there...sometimes you just attract scum though. Or, you let yourself get stuck with it.

    I for one, am trying to regroup as well. :)

    Good post Cookie!
    (Cause I'm so cool and just IMd you about it)

    MUAH.

     
  • At October 18, 2005 3:39 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Most women who say that "men suck!" are the ones who keep dating the exact same kind of men over and over again - the kind that cheat on them, dump them, act uninterested toward them, never call them...and the list goes on. if this is the case, which it probably is, then i have no pity. i hope she keeps getting tooled on.

     
  • At October 18, 2005 3:47 PM, Blogger DC Cookie said…

    I'm not sure I understand the relationship you're implying exists between strawberry ice cream and STDs. I wrote about strawberry ice cream because a) it's delicious and b) a particular gentleman brought me some recently and it's my subtle way of showing my appreciation for his effort.

     
  • At October 18, 2005 4:18 PM, Blogger Miss Penny Lane said…

    The search is half the fun! The catch will come when least expected (not a cliche for naught!), and we women should be glad for the experiences we have along the way...

     
  • At October 18, 2005 4:55 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Thank you, Cookie for posting about this topic. We women sometimes forget that there are wonderful men out there just waiting to meet our acquaintance. If a man treats you in a manner that is unworthy of a lady...move on. Just because one guy was a jerks...tht doesn't mean all men are jerks.

     
  • At October 18, 2005 5:21 PM, Blogger I-66 said…

    So appreciated, Cookie.

     
  • At October 18, 2005 7:03 PM, Blogger Asian Mistress said…

  • At October 19, 2005 10:10 AM, Blogger Mamma Bear said…

    I agree, there are so many great guys out there. However, in my observations they are usually in a relationship (thus making them even more great, because you see they can actually carry on a relationship.)
    That said, I have also dated the busted-ass mofos Dudley has mentioned.

    Either way, everyone's match is out there (at least I HAVE to believe that...I'm single!)

    Props to the Strawberry ice-cream guy, very sweet. I'd presonally prefer mint chocolate chip (green kind.)

     
  • At October 19, 2005 10:10 AM, Blogger Johnny said…

    men dont suck.
    women suck.
    men lick.

    :D

     
  • At October 19, 2005 11:52 AM, Blogger Mamma Bear said…

    Johnny - love it :o) HA HA HA However *some* men do suck. ...just sayin'sal

     
  • At October 20, 2005 10:43 AM, Blogger caasmom said…

    I agree with MPL. I would not be the wife I am today if it were not for the dozens of hideous relationships that failed prior to finding D. And just the same, D would not be the fantastic husband he is if not for the whores he dated before me!!! (I am soooo kidding BTW, ha ha)

    : )

     
  • At October 20, 2005 10:54 AM, Blogger caasmom said…

    I am extremely glad to hear that you ladies feel women should never settle. You are exactly right! And I am equally proud to see that the majority of my female single DC friends have chosen to not settle. However, it is a delicate balance, because TOO HIGH of standards can be quite frustrating, as I have frequently observed and previously experienced.

     

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